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Your first den meeting

Your first den meeting needs four things: a start time, a plan for sixty minutes, the Bobcat adventure, and a way to write down what got done. Everything else can wait until week three. Here is the meeting, block by block, and what to send parents first.

Do these four things before Tuesday

You were volunteered in August and the first meeting is next week. That is the normal way this happens. You do not need a year plan yet, a den flag, or a single craft supply. You need four things, and each one takes about ten minutes.

  • Get the roster from your Cubmaster, with parent names and phone numbers, and check it against who actually shows up.
  • Pick the day, the time and the room, and say it out loud in one message to every family. Sixty minutes is the right length for every rank except Lions, who do better with forty-five.
  • Finish Youth Protection Training before you stand in front of anyone. It is free at my.scouting.org and every council requires it.
  • Ask one parent to be your second adult at every meeting. Two registered adults is the rule, and it is also the only way you get to go to the bathroom.

The sixty minutes, block by block

Every good den meeting has the same five blocks in the same order. Scouts settle faster when the shape does not change, and you will stop inventing the meeting from scratch every week.

Gathering, ten minutes. Something on the table that a Scout can join alone, the second they walk in: a pile of cardboard and tape, a jar to guess, three questions taped to the wall. Parents arrive over fifteen minutes no matter what you do, and this block is what keeps the early Scouts from turning into a problem.

Opening, five minutes. Flag ceremony, the Scout Oath and the Scout Law. Hand a Scout the flag and let them lead it badly the first time. Print the Oath and Law on cards so nobody has to have it memorized on night one.

Talk time, five minutes. Two dates parents need, one question from the den, one sentence about what you are doing tonight.

Activity, thirty-five minutes. The actual adventure work, split into two to four chunks. Eight-year-olds give you about twelve minutes on one task, so plan three things rather than one long one.

Closing, five minutes. A short thought, then read back what the den finished tonight, by name. That last part matters more than it sounds like it does.

Start with Bobcat, because everybody needs it

Whatever rank your den is, every Cub Scout earns the Bobcat adventure first, and it has to be done before the rank badge is awarded. That makes your first meeting easy to choose: you do not have to know anything about your den's history to know that Bobcat is not finished. Do the sign, the salute, the handshake, the motto, the Oath and the Law with the whole den, and send the child-protection booklet home for the family part.

More on that in Bobcat first, and what it actually means. The per-rank pages have the requirements and a ready-made plan: Bobcat for Tigers, Bobcat for Wolves, Bobcat for Bears.

What to say to parents in the first five minutes

Parents are standing at the back deciding whether to stay. Give them something to hold on to before you start the opening.

  • When the den meets, for how long, and where to park.
  • Whether they stay or drop off. Lions and Tigers keep an adult partner at every meeting, Wolves and up usually do not.
  • The one thing you need from them: a second adult, snacks, or a ride to the pack event.
  • That you will tell them what their Scout finished, every time, so they are not guessing in April.

The ten minutes after the meeting that save you later

Write down what got done while you still remember it. Not the general shape of the evening, the actual requirements, and which Scouts finished them. A photo of your marked-up agenda counts. What ruins a den leader's spring is not the meetings, it is trying to reconstruct six months of sign-offs from memory in the week before crossover.

Then record it in Scoutbook Plus, or record it wherever you plan and export when you are ready. DenBuddy does the second one: the agenda you ran becomes the record sheet, and the export is a file a human uploads. See advancement gaps for what that looks like a few months in.

If the first meeting goes sideways

It probably will, a bit. Six kids under nine in a church basement is loud, and the plan that took you an hour will take them eleven minutes. That is not a sign you picked the wrong volunteer job. Keep the five blocks, shorten the activity, add a game, and run it again next week. By the fourth meeting the den knows the shape and you will be planning in fifteen minutes instead of an hour.

When you are ready to plan the next one, import your den and let DenBuddy build the agenda from the requirements your Scouts still need.

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